Friday, February 15, 2013

Now THAT Was A Very Scary Valentine's Day!

As I tell you about my Valentine's Day, I want you to know that everything is OK and no one was hurt. 

I got a call from my neighbor about 9 am asking me if I was watching the news about an intruder in Nicholas' Middle School and that they were in a full lock down.  I had no idea, but I had my coat on and was out the door before she even hung up!  As I approached the school, of course it was blocked off  in all directions, but I did manage to get within a block to see that the entire building was surrounded in police cars and there were SWAT team guys with rifles all around the outside of the building.  That was all it took to get some serious adrenaline pumping.  



  I got out and asked the intersection police what was going on and he directed me to a church in the next block where the police had set up a place to gather with parents and give updates.


First they had no information except that the kids were not in danger, the intruder had an axe and the school safety officer saw him and called the police.  So many, many stories started and crazy things were being passed around and rumored - I mean seriously crazy - it's amazing what hysteria does to people!  
We waited and waited while they decided if they were going to relocate the kids, if they were going to close school, how they were going to let us get to our kids, for them to search every single classroom and for them to apprehend the intruder...so nerve wracking and helpless and scary and ...

A couple of hours later we learned that the intruder was actually a student and he had a military style shovel of sorts and he was not intending any harm to anyone.  The news reported that it belonged to a teacher and that the student had retrieved it from the teachers car, at the teachers request, for a part of a school lesson that day.  Who knows, that was not in any of the updates the police were giving while I was there.  All I do know for sure is that it was a very scary situation to wait helplessly and not know what was going on with my child! 


 Finally, after what seemed like hours later, they let us walk up to the school, stand in line, show ID and get our child.  I was scared out of my mind with all the recent school problems and so very, very grateful that the students were safe and that everyone did their job - and did it well!  


The school was amazingly organized in getting the kids to us.  It went pretty quickly...some parents didn't play well with others but all in all, for as long as we had to wait, it went pretty well.  


When Nicholas came into the gym to meet me, he was all smiles and happy until he realized exactly what was going on on the outside of the school.  That shook him up for a minute.  

He said he had spent the last 2-1/2 hours in a crouched position in the corner of the girls locker room with 40+ other kids (he was in PE at the time of the lock down) in absolute silence.  Some kids were inside lockers, some under benches and the rest huddled together.  The whole class had to be silent, and they could hear the police above them in the upstairs classrooms enter and search each room and give a 'all clear'. He said they really didn't know what was going on at the time.

As we walked back to the car, my oh so cool 13 year old, held him mommy's hand tight as we watched and waited for all the traffic to clear.  He told me all about what he knew and had heard, what the kids were saying and how some of them reacted. I shared all that the parents had been through and how very grateful, SO incredibly grateful I am that he and the others were safe.  Then in typical Nicholas fashion he announced that he was starving and asked if I would take him to McDonald's -clearly he was over it...me, not so much!

Thank you to all the police who responded and the school staff for everything they did to ensure the safety of our kids.

47 comments :

  1. Thank goodness all ended safely. Being a parent is not for the wimpy!

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  2. Hi Becky,
    oh my God. What madness. The horror for any parent. Happy that everything went well. Many Greetings from Germany Silvia

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  3. Hi Becky,
    what a scary event to have to go through. I'm so thankful and glad that everyone is okay!

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  4. i can't even begin to imagine how you must have felt, with all the recent incidents going on. So glad everything ended well and topped off with, what else, McDonald's!

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  5. So glad it ended well! Scary, scary times we are living in!

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  6. WOW! Scary for sure but so very thankful everything turned out fine in the end! Hugs!

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  7. OMG, Becky! I'm soooo sorry you all had to go through that!!!!!! How terrifying! Sending lots of hugs your way!

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  8. So glad everything worked out fine, Becky. I'm glad your son had an appetite after all that and wanted McDonald's. I'm sure you would have fed him anything he wanted knowing he was safe.

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  9. So scary - glad all is well. I'm shaking reading this...

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  10. OMG... So glad everything was all right in the end. A very scary situation.

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  11. Becky I'm so happy to hear everyone was safe. Crazy as it sounds our own local Middle School had a gunman enter this week too! On Tuesday a man entered campus at the end of the day and entered the girls lockerroom and held a few girls hostage. Because of Sandy Hook they now have armed deputies on campus and he was able to negotiate the girls away and they were able to apprehend him w/o anyone being harmed. We are still hoping to hear more about his intent, etc. But it is so VERY scary! I pray for all our children and for our nation. What is humanity coming to, that there is so little value of life?

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  12. Oh my goodness...how scary. I am so glad everything turned out okay, but can't imagine how you (or Nicholas) felt that entire time! I sit here reading with tears streaming down my cheeks; not sure if they are for the worry or the happy ending!!

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  13. Geeze! I am so glad that this was a false alarm and your son is alright!!! Isn't is amazing what hysteria does to peoples imagination.You are all in my thoughts and prayers!

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  14. I cannot even begin to imagine how terrified you must have been! Thank goodness it all worked out ok. Hope you've stopped shaking!!!

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  15. What an upsetting story... esp. in light of the recent Newtown, CT tragedy at an elementary school, no less. I cannot even imagine the upset and worry and am so grateful to hear that all is well, really! Thank you for sharing Becky! God Bless!

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  16. States away, like here in Texas, the story doesn't always get played out in true light of what actually happened. I am so glad to hear YOUR side of the story before listening to any news this weekend. And I'm so very glad tht nothing has happened to such a precious family as yours! I'm sitting here in tears, even though everything is alright!

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  17. Becky, thank you for sharing such a personal and emotional experience. I am sorry that it happened but so grateful everyone was ok. I know I will be giving my girls extra hugs and kisses when I pick them up today.

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  18. so sorry that happened, very thankful everything turned out alright. God bless you and your son. ((hugs))
    It's better having too many police and nothing happen than the other way around.

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  19. So glad everything turned out ok! I can't even imagine what you went through in those few hours!

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  20. Good God in Heaven - I am so very thankful this turned out OK.

    I am totally impressed that you managed to take photographs. I would have been shaking so badly they all would have looked like SMEARS!

    So glad all is well!

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  21. Oh my word, how scary for you and your son! I'm glad to hear everything was ok in the end, I bet the time ticked past super slow for you x

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  22. Wow - so glad all is well and it was a huge misunderstanding. What a wake up call for all of us though!
    You are an awesome story teller; I'm sitting here reading with tears streaming down my face!

    Hugs,

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  23. Well...that will be a VDay you'll always remember! My boys are all in their 20s now and I hope you will never forget how wonderful it was to finally get to hold hands with your son. That part is such a sweet memory...because I realize now that I'm only going to experience that on a regular basis once I'm a lot older and I'm the one who needs help and comforting from them - hehe!

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  24. Becky so happy this ended on a high note. I can't imagine the fear you must have gone through. I'm thankful you and Nicholas are fine.

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  25. My heart was pounding reading your story. I just kept trying to imagine what the parents of Sandy Hook had to go through while they waited to hear news about their children. Thank you for sharing your day. I'm so glad for the happy outcome.

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  26. I teach at a Middle School in California and we have more lock down drills then fire drills these days. So glad to hear that your son and the rest of the students took it serious and it sounds like the police had an organized system in place. It literally makes me cry to read your post because this is our reality now.

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  27. WOW ! A Valentine's Day to remembered forever ! We live in a very rural area and when I was teaching Special Ed, we had a few lockdowns. Scary, yet very interesting and entertaining with my students ~they were troopers!!
    I'm so glad for your happy outcome as I can only imagine how it feels being the parent on the outside.

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  28. Thank God it was a misunderstanding and not a real problem....And thank God you're police department has such a great system in place....

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  29. Wow! What a mess! I am so happy that everything turned out well! Praise God!

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  30. Oh how scary that must have been. I am from Australia and it is devastating to us when we hear of the terrible things that have happened in your schools. I can only imagine how you must have been feeling.
    It is so good to hear that no harm came to anyone and I am sure that the little Macca's comment at the end will supply you all with a little laugh at some time in the future.

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  31. Becky, OMGosh I don't know how you survived that and to tell us...I would have had a heart attack for sure. Thank goodness everyone was safe and there wasn't any danger. The poor child who followed his teacher's instructions must feel awful....

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  32. Oh my goodness Becky, how terrifying for you and Nicholas, not knowing what was going on, so glad it was a false alarm and I am sure McDonalds were happy at the end of the day!
    With recent events it sounds as though the police and the school have a very good system in place, even though it was scary maybe a good practice for them all, and pray to god it never happens again. So happy to hear you both are safe and well, big hugs xx

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  33. I am so thankful for you and Nicholas that this ended the way it did. Praise the Lord!

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  34. I am so thankful for you and Nicholas that this ended the way it did. Praise the Lord!

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  35. So glad you are all ok and that it all turned out well. Just love so much that your "oh so cool" 13 year old held your hand (and heart) as you dealt with it together. Thanking God for His protection, in spite of human error, misperception, and confusion! It sound likes your community really handled it all extremely well.

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  36. So glad yesterday was not a tragedy. Take care.

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  37. OMG that must have been so very scary for you not knowing what was the truth. But you are both safe and I bet you needed a huge hug when is was all over.

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  38. Can't image what it was like waiting. I have a 13 year old girl - but we live in Australia and we luckily haven't experienced things like you guys have been lately. Glad everything turned out OK. Food a teenagers heaven!

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  39. Oh wow...would not have wanted to trade places with any of the staff, students or parents - let alone the police officers! But I can say, along with many others, that any of these incidents that have a great ending like this one is fabulous! How totally normal your son is...in spite of your heart leaping out of you....thanks for sharing the pics and the story...and hope you were able to get a good nights' sleep last night...hugs to each and all of you! My guess is that you did enjoy your Valentine evening!

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  40. God bless you, and your son, and family. It is so nice to hear that everything was innocent in the end, but that the school took such immediate reactions, and everything was so thouroughly checked by the police. It is good for everyone involved to have that experience of that kind of a drill, and hope that you never have to experience it again. Amen.

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  41. Sending hugs and love my friend, and I hope you went to McDonalds and ordered everything on the menu...Love you!

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  42. There are really no words to describe how afraid I would be. I'm sooooo happy it all turned out well, and I'm sure its not a test you would ever want to do again.

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  43. Becky--my eyes are filled with tears as I read what occured in your town ---and what a total relief that it ended the way that it did. All those children and teachers were so brave and I send up a prayer for everybody's safe keeping. Thank you for sharing your story with us--Your composure through the whole event speaks volumes to those of us on the outside of this looking in and may we never have to even come close to having such an experience. Everyone hug everyone in your life a little bit tighter and a little bit oftener.

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  44. Becky--my eyes are filled with tears as I read what occured in your town ---and what a total relief that it ended the way that it did. All those children and teachers were so brave and I send up a prayer for everybody's safe keeping. Thank you for sharing your story with us--Your composure through the whole event speaks volumes to those of us on the outside of this looking in and may we never have to even come close to having such an experience. Everyone hug everyone in your life a little bit tighter and a little bit oftener.

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  45. I am just now seeing this on Sat. morning! I'm so glad you let us know that all was good at the beginning! I still wept at the end. Sounds like Nicholas' school and the police did a wonderful job. We only get better at what we practice, so I'm sure everyone learned things from this experience and all were safe! Thank you Lord!

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  46. WOW. I am sitting here with a knot in my throat. SOOOO glad it all went well and he's safe and you're calm.

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